Goodness, what a night we had on November 20th…

All participants have already received an email, but for those who weren’t there: here is a recap.

Bryan and I decided on the 20th of September that the Turn On Your S*x event had to take place at Akhnaton. I hadn’t spoken to Jeroen for seventeen years. Back in the day, I was at every Wasteland, but you grow older, you have a child, you become a yoga teacher and suddenly your focus shifts away from your black latex and leather outfits. Okay, to be honest, they don’t fit me anymore either. And all the rubber has cracked, and even the second-hand shop turned up their nose at my expensive rubber suits. Well, unknown makes unloved.

The few leather bras from back in the day still pass through my hands sometimes, and with a bit of nostalgia I think back to the time when I could dance all night in heels and never longed for my Birkenstocks.

After a fiery start at a church in a village that starts with Ruig, a big Turn On Your S*x event was supposed to take place. The socials were ready, my network was informed, and the PR department of that progressive village had been notified. And then the unexpected happened. A meeting was held, and the higher powers decided that this taboo-breaking work had no place in the program.

Without apology, we were kicked out of the church with the juicy massage night. No explanation, no alternative, nothing. When I asked why, I was told that Tantra was already on the edge and that what I did went beyond it. Okaaaay. And there I stood, with my boundary-pushing plan out on the street. Rough greetings, and goodbye.

Bryan and I had planned that day to shoot more videos at the location. With a heavy heart and a trembling lip, I told him it wasn’t happening. And then he said: call Jeroen from Akhnaton, maybe they have space.

Ten minutes later, I had Jeroen on the phone. What he said then still moves me: “Come here, sweetheart, with your naughty little party.” That’s what you want, right? You want people around you who understand your mission and passion. The fact that the massage event wasn’t nearly as dirty as he first thought didn’t matter. That it’s about connection and feeling the different stages of arousal "I would explain that to him the next day".

That same week I was in his office, and it was arranged. We were going for it. And it became a success.

On the 20th of November there were 19 couples, in total 42 people. The temperature in the massage room was perfect and everyone worked hard on turning on their s*x. At the end of the massage, when each couple rested their foreheads together in Yab Yum position, I felt deeply happy and proud. The red light created a mature artwork of beautiful bodies intertwined. The calm, the intimacy, the music, everything was just right.

At 02:30 in the night we decided that it had been so wonderful that we would organize the event again. In May there will be a second edition of Turn On Your S*x, a tantric massage night. We are taking all feedback with us and we are looking for volunteers who want to help with the preparations. So if you feel a YES, you are welcome.

Thank you to everyone who was there with their divine bodies. And thank you to everyone who already feels with an open heart that they want to be there next time. “Let love rule,” as one participant wrote to me.

Love,

Christina