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    Amsterdam
    02 Oct 2026, 10:30 – 17:00
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    Tu I Teraz - Polen
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    Sat 07 Nov
    Amsterdam
    07 Nov 2026, 12:00 – 22:30
    Amsterdam
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    59 days to the event
    Wed 18 Nov
    São Paulo - Brazilië
    18 Nov 2026, 15:00 – 23 Nov 2026, 15:00
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    Christina faciliteert verschillende workshops op dit festival: Vulva Power, Turn On your sex, My Voice Your Desire en Slow Roping, Sexercise.
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    Psilocybine Truffle Ceremony JAN 15
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    Fri 15 Jan
    15 Jan 2027, 10:00 – 20:00
    Amsterdam
    This inner journey may offer you new insights that can open the door to new steps in your life. Intimate group of max. 8 participants | 🌶️
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    Tantric Joy Festival
    269 days to the event
    Wed 16 Jun
    16 Jun 2027, 11:00 – 20 Jun 2027, 16:00
    Zeewolde, Wielseweg 9, 3896 MB Zeewolde, Netherlands
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    Sexsibility Sweden
    317 days to the event
    Tue 03 Aug
    Ängsbacka Sweden
    03 Aug 2027, 15:00 – 08 Aug 2027, 22:00
    Ängsbacka Sweden
    3 aug t/m 8 aug 2026 Christina faciliteert verschillende workshops op dit festival.

Unraveling s*xual dogmas and historical myths

Writer: Christina Oud
Christina Oud
Mar 3
2 min read

On March 6, we welcome a special guest to the STEAM podcast: Frank Bouman van Veen. As a historian and expert in the history of science, he joins us to explore the hidden stories behind our s*xuality. The way we view s*x, kink and intimacy today is far more deeply rooted in the past than we often realize.


Frank Bouman van Veen has a unique talent for building a bridge between distant history and our modern day challenges. Together, we look at the origins of the rules, taboos and dogmas that continue to shape our behavior.



Beyond the dogmas

We often believe that in the 21st century we are fully liberated, yet Frank shows that many of our ideas about what is “normal” or “natural” are rooted in historical misconceptions. In his work, he unravels persistent untruths that have seeped into our culture over the centuries. Which myths about the human body and desire do we still unconsciously uphold? And how did institutions of the past decide what was allowed to happen behind the bedroom door?


Inspired by the past

Just as the stories of Henk Bakboord and DJ Jean on the website of Christina Oud show how subcultures and nightlife push boundaries, Frank demonstrates that history itself is one long chain of shifting boundaries. By understanding where our shame and our laws come from, we can truly begin to free ourselves from them.


What to expect on March 6

During the live recording of STEAM at Studio Six Feet Under, we will explore with Frank:


Historical s*xuality: How did people in the Middle Ages or in Antiquity really view pleasure and intimacy?

The power of myth: Which historical “facts” about s*x are actually fabrications, and why do we still believe them?

Breaking dogmas: How can knowledge of history help you look at your own s*xuality with more freedom and less judgment?

Connection: What can we learn from historical wisdom when shaping our “modern” s*x lives?


Christina Oud believes in the power of knowledge to unlock life force energy. Frank Bouman van Veen brings the intellectual tools needed to dismantle the walls surrounding our s*xuality.


Do not miss this deep dive into the past

The STEAM podcast is more than a conversation. It is a journey of discovery. Join us on March 6, ask your questions, and be surprised by the stories Frank brings out of the shadows of time. Meld je hier aan


Details

Date: March 6

Location: Studio Six Feet Under

Doors open: 6:30 PM | Recording starts: 7:00 PM


Love,

Christina


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