Navigating desire: conscious kink, inclusivity and the art of play
- Christina Oud
- Mar 3
- 2 min read
Updated: Mar 4
On March 6, we dive deep into the world of conscious intimacy during the STEAM podcast. Together with Wilrieke Sophia (Exploring Deeper), we explore the boundaries of conscious kink, inclusivity, and what happens when we reclaim ownership of our own pleasure.
In a world often dominated by rigid ideas about s*x and relationships, Wilrieke Sophia offers a refreshing and much needed countervoice. As founder of Exploring Deeper and an expert in trauma informed intimacy, Wilrieke helps people rediscover their own inner navigation system. Whether it is cuddle workshops, tantra, or the more shadowy sides of kink, the core remains the same: radical self inclusion and a deeply rooted practice of consent.
The power of the hot seat
During the live recording of STEAM on March 6 at Studio Six Feet Under, connection takes center stage. As you may have seen before, STEAM is all about authenticity. No holding back, but an open conversation in which you as the audience truly become part of the atmosphere and the dialogue.
What is conscious kink?
Kink is still often seen as something that exists purely on the margins, but with Wilrieke the perspective shifts. It is about playing with power dynamics, polarity and sensory stimulation within a foundation of safety and awareness. It becomes a laboratory where you learn what a genuine yes feels like and how a no does not have to end an interaction, but can instead help navigate it.
Inclusivity and play parties
A central theme of the episode is inclusivity. How do you create a space where every body, every story and every rhythm is welcome? Wilrieke’s Play Parties, such as the Red, Pink and Dark Red events, are designed to offer that safety. They are spaces where queer, s*x positive and kinky identities come together to explore what it means to be human in all our sensuality.
Why you do not want to miss this
On March 6 we will talk about:
• Conscious kink: How can you use BDSM and power play for personal growth and healing?
• Inclusivity: Why is a safe foundation essential for radical self expression?
• The wheel of consent: The difference between giving, receiving, taking and allowing.
• Play parties: What can you expect and how do you navigate your own boundaries and desires?
Christina’s mission is clear: better org*sms for everyone and more life force energy in our bodies. When we feel safe enough to play, space opens for vitality, love and freedom.
Will you join us on March 6?
Come with your curiosity, your questions and your vulnerability. Let us go deep together. Sign up here. If you are reading this and March 6, 2026 is already behind us, you can listen to the podcast on Spotify and iTunes, or watch it on YouTube.
Love,
Christina
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